=) I read a very interesting novel called “Shanghai 30s”  in Book Cafe….and I just have to reproduce this exercept here! Its hilarious!! The author likened the courting process to a battle plan! Guys, take note…i think its helpful..=P

“In pursuing a woman,9 out of 10 men will adopt the strategy of incremental attack. Polite, respectful behavior signals the first stage. If the woman doesn’t repel the attack with a definite refusal, then the second stage follows. This consists of demostrations of great sympathy, going along with the woman’s every whim and comforting her at every turn. Consequently, a sense of intimacy and familiarity develops. If this stage of the battle plan proceeds smoothly, the the 3rd stage swiftly follows. This begins with light hearted double entendres that combine frivolity and understanding. If the woman fails to immediately parry this third stage thrust or perhaps too embarrassed to refuse the man entirely, then the attacker moves easily into the 4th or final stage of the campaign, the stage the final goal of which is the woman’s unconditional surrender….”

So ladies you know what to look out for and make your intentions known..maybe we can even launch our own counter attack! =) hahahahah